#962: How To Win At Life (Brutally Honest Advice w/ Cody Smith)
Feb 22, 2024
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Brutally honest advice on life, success, God, and parenting with successful gym owner Cody Smith. Topics include embracing responsibility, cherishing time, self-leadership, overcoming setbacks, and navigating societal pressures.
Avoid dismissing achievements with 'Wouldn't it be nice?'
Commit to excellence by refusing mediocrity with 'You're too hard on yourself'
Take tangible steps towards success, not just words with 'Easier said than done'
Model behavior through actions to inspire others for personal development
Embrace authenticity and self-belief despite external criticism
Deep dives
The Power of Action Over Words
The statement 'Wouldn't it be nice?' can often be a sign of disrespect towards someone's achievements or capabilities. It implies a lack of belief in one's own potential and the efforts put in to reach their goals. By dismissing the idea of luck or easy success, individuals can focus on taking action and working towards their own version of success.
Embracing High Standards
When someone says 'You're too hard on yourself,' it can signify a commitment to excellence and a refusal to settle for mediocrity. Embracing high standards can push individuals to constantly strive for improvement and strive for their best in all areas of life, challenging themselves to reach greater heights.
Overcoming Challenges with Action
The phrase 'Easier said than done' highlights that accomplishing goals requires more than just words - it demands concrete actions and consistent effort. By acknowledging the difficulties but still taking tangible steps towards success, individuals can overcome obstacles and achieve their aspirations.
Leading by Example and Inspiring Growth
Setting an example through actions rather than just words can have a profound impact on influencing others to follow a similar path. By displaying dedication, perseverance, and a commitment to growth, individuals can inspire those around them to strive for their own success and personal development.
Leading by Example: Practicing What You Preach in Parenting
Emphasizing the importance of parents modeling behavior for their children, the podcast discusses the significance of 'doing what I say, not as I do' being contrary to extreme ownership. Using personal examples, the speaker highlights the crucial impact of taking responsibility and making apologies in front of children to instill valuable life lessons.
Self-Love and Growth: The Fallacy of Being Too Hard on Yourself
Exploring the misconception surrounding self-love and growth, the episode delves into the notion that accepting oneself as is can hinder progress. Encouraging self-love as a catalyst for change, the podcast emphasizes the importance of not settling for mediocrity and enabling behaviors that deter personal development.
Easier Said Than Done: Embracing Challenges and Commitment
Discussing the common phrase 'easier said than done,' the podcast challenges the notion that tasks should be easy, highlighting the necessity of overcoming difficulties for growth. Drawing on examples of personal experiences, the episode underscores the value of commitment, effort, and the readiness to face challenges on the path to success.
Utilizing Fat Loss and Muscle Growth as Tools for Teaching Self-Discipline and Motivation
Emphasizing the use of fat loss and muscle growth in coaching as vehicles for teaching individuals essential qualities like self-discipline, self-control, willpower, and motivation. These physical transformations serve as catalysts for broader life changes, impacting confidence levels and empowering individuals to take on new challenges and roles, demonstrating the holistic benefits of fitness coaching beyond mere physical outcomes.
Embracing Authenticity and Overcoming Criticism in Pursuit of Personal Growth and Success
Encouraging the audience to embrace authenticity and uniqueness despite potential criticism or negativity from others. The discussion highlights the importance of staying true to personal beliefs, goals, and passions, even when faced with skepticism or ridicule. It underlines the significance of overcoming insecurities and self-doubt to pursue growth and success, emphasizing the power of self-belief and taking action regardless of external opinions.
This is a REALLY powerful episode... This episode is your chance chance to sit and listen in on a discussion about Life, Success, God, Parenting, and so much more, with my Best Friend, Cody Smith.
Cody is a very successful fitness gym and BJJ studio owner, Husband and Father of 3, content creator, and hybrid athlete. He does a lot and he does a lot VERY well, which makes him such an interesting and exciting person to be around. When you put the two of us together, you're bound for a long and powerful discussion about all things SUCCESS -- which is what this podcast is!
