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The Rachel Hollis Podcast

738: FRIDAY FAVE | The Covert Passive-Agressive Narcissist with Debbie Mirza

Jan 31, 2025
In this insightful discussion, Debbie Mirza, an author specializing in covert passive-aggressive narcissism, sheds light on identifying tricky narcissistic behaviors. She delves into the complexities of covert narcissism versus overt narcissism, emphasizing its subtle manipulations. Mirza explores the devastating impact of gaslighting and how it shapes perceptions in relationships. She shares practical advice for recognizing emotional abuse and healing from it, targeting people pleasers and shedding light on the journey to self-empowerment.
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  • Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) significantly affects individuals and relationships, with covert narcissists often undiagnosed due to subtle manipulation tactics.
  • The emotional rollercoaster of love bombing followed by devaluation creates a toxic dependency in victims of covert narcissists, leading to profound psychological consequences.

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Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is characterized by specific traits that can significantly impact individuals and their relationships. A key aspect of NPD is the grandiose sense of self, where individuals often believe they are superior to others and demand admiration. Understanding that the term 'narcissism' has become commonplace and often misused is crucial, as genuine NPD can lead to deep emotional trauma for victims. It's essential to recognize that those with overt narcissistic traits may seek therapy, while covert narcissists often remain undiagnosed due to their subtle manipulation tactics.

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