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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

501 - Are you having sex or is sex having you? A conversation with Dan Savage

Oct 15, 2024
Dan Savage, a renowned sex advice columnist and founder of the It Gets Better Project, joins the conversation to explore the evolving landscape of relationships. He discusses the balance between desire and control in sexuality and advocates for embracing non-monogamy as a valid relationship model. With humor, he examines societal shifts in perceptions of love, infidelity, and commitment, and critiques current sex education's impact on modern dating. Savage's candid insights challenge traditional norms and highlight the importance of honest communication.
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  • Sex can control our lives despite our perceived autonomy, emphasizing the need to channel sexual energy positively through enriching connections.
  • The acceptance of non-monogamy has evolved, particularly within gay communities, and is increasingly reflected in the broader cultural conversation around relationships.

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The Complexity of Sexuality

Sex is a fundamental aspect of human existence, with a history that spans millions of years, and its influence permeates our lives deeply. Many people feel that they are in control of their sexual choices, but it can often feel like sex has its own hold over individuals, dictating their actions and desires. To navigate this complexity, finding ways to channel sexual energy positively becomes crucial. This often involves exploring short-term relationships that enrich life experiences while creating connections and varying levels of intimacy.

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