The Secret Sauce of Parenting with David Thomas

In this episode of the 3% Podcast, hosts Jamie Haigh and Blake Roberts engage in a deep conversation with David Thomas, co-executive director of Daystar Counseling and co-author of 11 books, including ‘Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son can Build on for Life,’ and the best-selling ‘Wild Things: The Art of Nurturing Boys.’ The discussion revolves around the importance of vulnerability and honesty in parenting, the challenges parents face in today's world, and the significance of modeling emotional regulation for children. David shares insights from his new children's book, which aims to teach resilience and emotional understanding through the story of a therapy dog. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to reflect on their own stories and the impact of their parenting on future generations.

Takeaways

• Vulnerability and honesty are crucial in parenting.
• Parents should trust their instincts amidst overwhelming information.
• Modeling emotional regulation is essential for children.
• Apologizing to children can strengthen relationships.
• Children's books can convey complex emotional themes simply.
• Therapy dogs can play a significant role in emotional healing.
• Building resilience in children starts with acknowledging fear.
• Parenting is about cleaning up our side of the street.
• Understanding one's own story is vital for effective parenting.

Check out Daystar Counseling: ⁠https://www.daystarcounseling.com/⁠

Pre-order David and Sissy’s new books: ⁠https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/shop⁠

Listen to Raising Boys and Girls: ⁠https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/⁠

Follow David on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/raisingboysandgirls/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to David Thomas and Daystar Counseling

05:30 The Importance of Vulnerability and Honesty in Parenting

08:33 Navigating Emotional Development and Parenting Challenges

11:19 The Role of Apologies and Self-Regulation in Parenting

14:35 Introducing the New Children's Book and Its Themes

17:28 The Story Behind the Therapy Dog and Its Impact

20:31 Building Resilience and Courage in Children

23:33 The Mission of the Children's Book and Its Emotional Tools

29:53 Courage in Overcoming Fear

31:36 Empathy and Resilience in Parenting

34:49 The Impact of Family Stories

36:54 Transforming Pain into Growth

39:50 The Importance of Acknowledging Harm

44:28 Generational Impact of Parenting

47:23 Cleaning Up Our Side of the Street

53:44 The Legacy of Good Parenting

Keywords

parenting, emotional development, vulnerability, honesty, resilience, children's books, therapy dogs, David Thomas, Daystar Counseling, raising boys, parenting, resilience, courage, empathy, family stories, growth, vulnerability, generational impact, self-awareness, emotional health