

569- Top ADHD Challenges (and Solutions) for Teen Boys
46 snips Aug 19, 2025
Brendan Mahan is an ADHD coach and former educator who shares insights on parenting teen boys with ADHD. He discusses the emotional volatility and defiance often experienced during adolescence, emphasizing communication and mutual respect. Mahan explores the relationship between ADHD and OCD, suggesting tailored treatment options. He addresses the importance of fostering independence and trust while managing screen time and social media impacts. The conversation highlights strategies for parental support to navigate these challenging years.
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Trust vs Control Spiral
- Trust and control form a spiral: stepping in to control communicates distrust and reduces trustworthy behavior.
- Backing off increases a teen's opportunity to learn and become more trustworthy.
Step Back Quickly After Helping
- Resist over-helping and step in only when asked by the teen or a teacher.
- If you must help, step back out quickly so your teen can practice independence.
Magic Nights Built Friendship
- Brendan drives his sons 20 minutes to a local store so they can play Magic: The Gathering and make friends.
- The game night lasts about four hours and has helped them connect socially.