Traveling with Babies, Toddlers, Preschoolers (8 Tips)
Dec 11, 2019
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Janet, an author focused on parenting, shares invaluable strategies for traveling with small children. She emphasizes the importance of tuning into kids' perspectives to create a joyful travel experience. Personal anecdotes highlight preparation and flexibility as key to reducing stress. Janet offers practical advice to keep children engaged and emotionally regulated during trips. She also discusses the challenges of post-trip transitions, encouraging parents to understand their children's behavior and embrace the chaos of returning home.
Recognizing that travel with children can disrupt routines helps parents maintain calmness, aiding their children's emotional regulation.
Preparing children for travel through honest communication fosters confidence and builds resilience to handle new experiences together.
Deep dives
Setting Realistic Expectations for Travel with Children
Traveling with children requires setting realistic expectations about the experience. Parents should understand that trips may not be as restful as anticipated, as children can feel out of balance and overstimulated due to disruptions in their routines. This recognition can help parents maintain a calm demeanor, which is crucial for their children's emotional regulation during travel. An example shared from a European trip illustrates this; while the experience had its challenges, the family also created lasting memories, emphasizing that the joys of traveling can still outweigh difficulties.
The Importance of Familiarity and Routine
Maintaining a sense of familiarity and routine is vital for children during travel to help them feel secure. Bringing familiar items, such as favorite toys or blankets, can provide comfort in new environments. Establishing sequences of events, like post-lunch rest periods, can ease anxiety for both parents and children when away from home. The discussion of portable play yards exemplifies how keeping some routines intact can allow children to feel free while still being safely contained in unfamiliar places.
Preparing Children for New Experiences
Preparing children for new travel experiences through honest communication fosters confidence and helps them understand what to expect. Sharing the realities of travel, such as time spent seated on a plane or the presence of many people, builds a connection and can lessen anxiety. This proactive approach creates a narrative that children can reference during the experience, enabling them to feel more in control and settled. By acknowledging both positive and negative aspects of travel, parents enable their children to approach new situations with greater resilience.
Janet shares ideas for traveling with small children that help us tune in to their perspectives, deepen our parent-child connection, and create a more joyful experience for all.
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