Episode 409: Sarah Jane Ho: Mastering Etiquette for Dating and the 20-40-2 Rule for Better Conversations

In conversations do you tend to dominate or take a backseat? 

In this Habits and Hustle episode, I’m re-sharing a conversation I had with etiquette expert Sara Jane Ho about using guidelines to foster a more interactive, balanced dialogue, and deeper connection. 

Listen as we discuss the challenge of dancing around the fine line between curiosity and intrusiveness, noting cultural differences in what's considered polite or rude, and the intersection of East meets West and female empowerment - especially in business! She also shares the true impact of making a strong first impression, especially in the world of modern dating, and the evolving norms of social etiquette in the post-COVID world. 

Sara Jane Ho is the star of Netflix’s “Mind Your Manners”, author of the book of the same name, founder of Chinese finishing school, Institute Sarita, where students are taught etiquette and lifetime skills.

What We Discuss:

(11:00) The legacy of etiquette and charm schools 

(20:00) How to master etiquette and dating in the modern world 

(22:18) The impact of a first impression 

(37:00) The essential guide to exceptional table manners 

(51:10) The key differences between curiosity and intrusiveness 

(58:34) Career choices and female empowerment

(01:01:51 Herbal remedies and Eastern medicine 

(01:11:50) Innovative intimate wellness company and proper vulva hygiene education 

(01:25:14) Avoiding graveyard energy in your home, and the 20 second/40 second rule 

…and more!

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Find more from Sara Jane Ho:

Website:https://www.sarajaneho.com/ 

Book: Mind Your Manners

Instagram: @sarajaneho