1931: [Part 2] 10 Ways to Screw Up an Apology by Keith Wilson on Sincerity and Owning Up to Your Mistakes
Oct 17, 2023
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Learn the 10 ways you can screw up an apology and how to avoid them. Understand the importance of answering questions and making amends in an apology. Explore the power of a sincere apology and how it can positively impact relationships.
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Quick takeaways
When apologizing, answer questions from the person you've hurt to show willingness for scrutiny and consider involving a third party for guidance when necessary.
Apologies should be followed by tangible actions and active listening to repair damaged relationships and encourage open communication.
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Answering Questions and Seeking Help
When apologizing, it is important to answer questions from the person you've hurt. This shows that you are willing to stand under scrutiny and helps address any uncertainties. In situations where you feel your partner is not asking the right questions, it may be helpful to seek the assistance of an objective third party who can help frame the questions and facilitate the process of moving forward.
Making Amends and Listening
Apologies should be followed by tangible actions to make amends. Mere words of apology are not enough to repair a damaged relationship. Commitment to change and actual efforts to rectify the harm caused are crucial. Additionally, after admitting wrongdoing, it is vital to listen attentively to the person you've hurt. Pay attention not only to their words but also to their emotions, body language, and inflection. Summarizing their concerns shows that you are genuinely trying to understand and encourages open communication.
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The Importance of Answering Questions and Making Amends in an Apology
Keith Wilson lists 10 ways that you can screw up an apology, and how not to. This is part 2 of 2.
Episode 1931: [Part 2] 10 Ways to Screw Up an Apology by Keith Wilson on Sincerity and Owning Up to Your Mistakes
Keith Wilson is a licensed mental health counselor and certified alcohol and substance abuse counselor in New York State, with more than 30 years experience. Keith has done a lot of writing about ways to improve your relationships and become the person you would like to be. His newest book is The Road to Reconciliation: A Comprehensive Guide to Peace When Relationships Go Bad.