Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 988
Oct 7, 2025
This week features Jackie Cox, a fabulous drag performer and Season 12 contestant on RuPaul's Drag Race. She joins Dan to discuss the nuances of drag life and the close-knit community among queens. One listener debates if she should keep shibari exclusive with her partner in an open relationship, while others explore using semen as lubricant and the challenges of open communication in dating. Jackie shares insights on navigating relationships and social dynamics in drag, making for a lively and enlightening conversation!
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Religious Abuse As Misframed Kink
- Dan argues that many abuses framed as religious control are actually kinks gone religious and could be handled safely in consensual kink communities.
- He urges honesty about desires and recommends finding consensual practices rather than submitting to cult-like leaders.
Talk And Let Rope Skills Grow
- Ask why your partner wants to practice shibari with others and discuss whether skill development requires practicing with other people.
- Let him explore and reassess how you feel afterward instead of forcing a rule that could backfire.
Make Semen Kink Safer With Testing
- Mitigate STI risk by using partners who show recent test results rather than random strangers when wanting to use semen as lube.
- Decide whether the kink's risk is acceptable and plan logistics (trusted tested donor) accordingly.