Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)
Apr 15, 2024
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In this podcast, Chris Inman shares 'The Lonely Walk,' highlighting the importance of story work for men outgrowing porn. They delve into childhood wounds, reflections on past experiences, and the impact of childhood absences on adult relationships. The discussion underlines the significance of personal stories for healing and growth.
Story work helps individuals understand emotions and behaviors, leading to self-awareness and growth.
Sharing personal experiences and vulnerabilities fosters authentic connections and emotional fulfillment.
Deep dives
The Power of Storytelling in Breaking Silence
Story work involves writing and sharing our truths, aiming to break the silence and shame associated with past experiences like addiction to porn. By revealing hidden stories, individuals can understand their emotions and behaviors, leading to self-awareness and growth. The process allows individuals to address underlying issues causing stress and physical symptoms, fostering healing through open communication and community support.
Creating Authentic Connections through Story Work
Story work helps individuals establish authentic connections by sharing their experiences and vulnerabilities. By detaching from harmful behaviors like porn addiction and attaching to supportive relationships, individuals can find emotional fulfillment and overcome isolation. The practice emphasizes the importance of engaging with others and building a network of understanding and compassionate individuals for mutual support and growth.
Gaining Insight and Healing through Understanding Personal Stories
Engaging in story work provides individuals with insight into the root causes behind addictive behaviors like porn consumption. By delving into personal stories and childhood experiences, individuals can uncover deep-seated desires, traumas, and emotional wounds that contribute to their struggles. Understanding the 'why' behind one's actions can lead to self-discovery, healing childhood trauma, and fostering personal growth and empowerment.
Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.com
Wendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.com
Marcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.com
Chris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.com