Pillow Talks

E194: What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2

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Feb 6, 2025
Ever wondered what your partner secretly wishes you'd stop doing in the bedroom? This discussion dives into common complaints, from communication blunders to awkward initiation attempts. Surprising grievances about kissing and aftercare surface, along with practical tips for improvement. The hosts emphasize the importance of open dialogue, exploring how clear communication can enhance intimacy and satisfy both partners. Humor and personal anecdotes add a light touch, making it relatable and informative!
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ANECDOTE

Demeaning Aftercare

  • Xander suggests that asking "do you feel better?" after sex can feel demeaning.
  • He emphasizes the importance of emotional connection during sex, not just physical release.
ADVICE

Quickie Considerations

  • When suggesting quickies, consider if your partner can orgasm quickly; adjust your approach accordingly.
  • Work together on techniques for mutual quickie orgasms to enhance shared pleasure.
ADVICE

Initiation Clarity

  • While some enjoy nonverbal initiation, direct verbal communication about wanting sex is crucial.
  • Avoid jokey physical initiations as they can create ambiguity and hinder open communication.
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