The Futur with Chris Do

The Art of Arguing Less and Communicating More w/ Jefferson Fisher | Ep 392

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Oct 25, 2025
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Jefferson Fisher
Join Jefferson Fisher, a fifth-generation trial attorney and bestselling author, as he shares insights on enhancing communication and minimizing arguments. He discusses the critical timing for tough conversations and introduces the powerful phrase 'I can tell' to set the stage for meaningful dialogue. Jefferson emphasizes the importance of breath control and slowing speech to convey confidence. Discover how authenticity builds trust and why clear, kind communication can transform interactions both personally and professionally.
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ADVICE

Schedule Hard Talks, Don’t Wing Them

  • Schedule important conversations instead of waiting for a “good time.”
  • Postpone with a clear reason and commit to a specific future time to improve focus and outcomes.
ADVICE

Use “I Can Tell” To Pause A Talk

  • Use the phrase “I can tell” to own your state and postpone or frame a talk.
  • Say exactly why you’re not ready to be more present and propose a better time to discuss.
ADVICE

Make Your Breath Your First Word

  • Take a breath before you speak to regulate emotion and buy thinking time.
  • Slow your answers so listeners perceive thoughtfulness and calm confidence.
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