Sex for Saints Episode 372 - Better Sex Isn’t About Technique
Jun 6, 2025
Forget quick fixes in the bedroom! Discover how true intimacy goes beyond techniques and dives into emotional connections. The discussion reveals that fulfillment in sexual relationships arises from vulnerability and trust, not just the right positions or rhythms. Real-life examples showcase the importance of honest communication in strengthening bonds. It's about doing the harder emotional work that sparks desire and makes partners feel truly wanted.
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Technique Is A Surface-Level Fix
- Technique feels like the easy fix but rarely resolves deeper issues like distrust or resentment.
- Real sexual repair requires addressing emotional dynamics, not just positions or timing.
Be Honest And Listen Without Fixing
- Be honest about your sexual desires and explore where shame or fear shuts desire down.
- Listen to your spouse's vulnerability without defensiveness to begin rebuilding trust.
Desire Returned Through Emotional Safety
- A wife wanted desire back but lacked emotional trust because her husband was critical and disconnected.
- Her desire returned when she could express needs and he heard her without defensiveness.