Stoking the Sexual Fire with Ian Hawks | Men's Sexual Mastery Ep. 19

Mar 26, 2025

Dive into the transformative world of sacred sexuality and emotional healing! The conversation uncovers the importance of addressing ancestral patterns and nurturing the feminine within men. Real stories reveal the journey from environmentalism to empowerment in men's work. Discover how deep intimacy impacts relationships and the role of nervous system regulation in communication. The speakers emphasize brotherhood in healing sexual energy, inspiring a community dedicated to unlocking deeper levels of connection and fulfillment.

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ANECDOTE

Ian Hawks' Journey to Sacred Sexuality

Ian Hawks shares his journey from environmental science to men's sexual work after personal wake-up events.
His relationship with Aspen and shared celibacy opened a path into tantra and sacred sexuality exploration.

INSIGHT

Inner Healing Reflects Outward

Healing the masculine-feminine relationship within oneself leads to healthier outer relationships.
This internal work contributes to global healing, aligning personal and planetary balance.

ADVICE

Cultivate Safety in Relationships

Cultivate safety and nervous system regulation to deepen sexual and relational pleasure.
Approach relationships with presence, attunement, and reverence for the feminine.

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One of the key concepts in re-wiring our sexuality for deeper orgasms and pleasure is addressing the ancestral patterns of manipulation and control of the feminine.

As the old saying goes, "As within, so without" - how we are treating our internal yin/feminine energy as men is how we will treat it outside of ourselves in relationship.

What's your relationship like with your body? With your emotions? With your sexuality?

Without being in a state of deep attunement to our internal states and knowing how to navigate them, we will never be able to show up to our partners in ways that can lead them even deeper into the sexual mysteries.

In this episode, Ben introduces the re-launch of Men's Sexual Mastery with co-founder Ian Hawks, who shares his journey of devotion studying the feminine and sexuality, and how we can be "fire tenders" of her sexual flame, and in doing so - unlock even deeper levels of the same bliss within ourselves.

Men’s Sexual Mastery is a men’s sexual education community dedicated to awakening, aligning, and empowering every brother into his fullest sexual potential.

Our training programs are designed to reprogram the limited conditioning of sexuality we received as young men through porn and virtually nonexistent sexual education.

By combining semen retention with Taoist sexual alchemy practices, men are able to expand their capacity to hold and circulate sexual energy, awakening their capacity for internal orgasms, deeper levels of connection and fulfillment in relationships, and an overall heightened sense of pleasure and well-being in day-to-day life.

We believe that these practices are the greatest biohack of all time, and our mission is to educate and empower every brother in this internal alignment to deepen his presence as a man and lover in the world.

For more information, check out our website at:

https://www.menssexualmastery.com

IG: https://www.instagram.com/mens.sexual.mastery/

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