Solo – The Single Person’s Guide to a Remarkable Life The Science of Single Living
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Dec 26, 2019 Bella DePaulo, a leading authority on single living, discusses the myths surrounding singlehood versus marriage. She reveals that singles are often happier and more socially connected than their married counterparts. The conversation tackles stigmas and the unique advantages of being single, like personal freedom and opportunities for growth. Bella also highlights the emotional and financial challenges single caregivers face, while advocating for the empowerment of single living and the reevaluation of societal norms around marriage.
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Why Cross-Sectional Studies Mislead
- Cross-sectional comparisons mislead because they ignore people who later divorce.
- Removing those headed for divorce inflates the apparent benefits of marriage.
Marriage Doesn’t Create Lasting Happiness
- Longitudinal data show marriage does not produce lasting happiness gains beyond a small honeymoon effect.
- People who stay married return to baseline happiness, so marriage is not a causal cure for unhappiness.
Flip The Script On Judgement
- Flip the script when people question your single status and ask them why they chose marriage.
- Use that reversal to challenge assumptions and disarm stigma about being single.