What in the World Why people in China are pretending to get married
Jul 15, 2025
Wanqing Zhang, a journalist from the BBC's Global China Unit, explores the intriguing trend of 'marriage buddies' in China. Young people are forming these platonic partnerships to satisfy societal pressures while maintaining independence. They dress up, attend events, and let family believe they are in a relationship, all without legal ties. This phenomenon reflects a shift in how romance is perceived, with many seeking companionship over traditional love. Hear from Linda, who shares her reasons for joining this unique trend.
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Marriage Buddy Relationship Defined
- Marriage buddies in China represent a performative relationship with clear boundaries.
- Couples often maintain separate finances, friend circles, and do not live together.
Linda's Marriage Buddy Story
- Linda seeks a marriage buddy to satisfy traditional family expectations without giving up her independence.
- They agreed to stay financially independent and not live or share daily life together.
Why Young Chinese Choose Marriage Buddies
- Parental pressure and economic struggles drive young Chinese to avoid traditional marriage.
- Many prefer marriage buddies as a compromise to maintain independence while appeasing family.