Church Disrupted 002: Exposing Toxic Gaslighting Phrases in the Church
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Aug 22, 2023 Exploring toxic gaslighting phrases in the church, this podcast sheds light on manipulation tactics, gaslighting in church settings, and the impact on mental well-being. It addresses disparities in pastor wages, accountability issues in church leadership, and the importance of standing up against abuse. The conversation emphasizes recognizing gaslighting, confronting manipulation, and fostering healing and growth within the church community.
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Gaslighting Undermines Reality
- Gaslighting is psychological manipulation causing victims to question their reality and sanity.
- In churches, this leads to victims doubting their memories and feeling controlled.
Gaslighting Often Unintentional
- Many church leaders gaslight out of insecurity or learned abusive patterns, not intention to harm.
- Recognizing and apologizing for gaslighting is key to growth and healing.
Forgiveness vs. Accountability
- Forgiveness does not mean forgetting or ignoring abuse in the church.
- Reporting abuse and protecting victims is a Christian responsibility, not contradiction to forgiveness.