What is a Good Life? What is a Good Life? #26 - Comfort In My Own Skin with Angela Kirwin
On the 26th episode of the "What is a Good Life?" podcast, I am joined by Angela Kirwin, who is a Writer, Speaker, Campaigner, former Social Care Worker, and author of the acclaimed book "Criminal: How Our Prisons Are Failing Us All"
In this episode, Angela shares with us her journey towards experiencing greater comfort in her own skin. From mainly focussing on hitting big goals to observing what actually makes her feel content (community and a common purpose), and from realising it was less about changing herself but returning to who she was.
We discuss her process of observing, understanding, and accepting her experience with ADHD through therapy, as well as the life lessons around vulnerability and authenticity she witnessed from men’s groups she facilitated in prison. While she also highlights the importance of appreciating the nuance and complexity of others in order to afford ourselves more compassion.
If you are presently being hard on yourself, experiencing negative self-talk, or you feel like you are on a constant treadmill to earn your own self-acceptance, this episode will give you plenty to contemplate, as well as providing a number of paths and perspectives to cultivate greater empathy for yourself.
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Running Order:
01:38 Podcast begins
02:13 How does change happen, societally, culturally, and individually?
05:10 Comfort in my own skin
08:08 Community and Purpose
13:18 How much are we in control of change?
17:23 Change or returning to who you were?
22:06 Inspiration from vulnerability of men in prison
29:52 Lack of honesty with ourselves and others
34:00 Journey with ADHD
39:38 Inspiration for writing books
45:56 Appreciating the nuance of other people’s lives
51:37 The power of openness, honesty, and a willingness to listen
59:38 What is a good life for Angela?
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- Angela's book: https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Angela-Kirwin/dp/1398705837