The Kink Consultant Ep 03 - Answering Your Questions: From Rates to Rules in the Dungeon
Sep 12, 2024
Discover the ins and outs of being a professional dominatrix as financial questions are boldly addressed. The host shares unforgettable stories highlighting the vibrant dynamics of the BDSM community and emphasizes the essential role of trust in client interactions. Get insights on setting boundaries, negotiating, and the often-unwritten rules of dungeon conduct. This exploration of intimacy and connection proves valuable both in and out of the kink scene!
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Career Start and Pricing Integrity
- Amanda Dames mixed necessity and passion as reasons for becoming a dominatrix.
- She emphasized integrity in pricing and the emotional impact of valuing her body in monetary terms.
Negotiating Extras Carefully
- Negotiate extras like nudity to make your rate fair.
- Respect agreed standards to avoid devaluing everyone's work.
The Emotional Cost of Body Valuation
- Valuing one's body transactionally can cause emotional difficulty.
- Physical worth can be priceless yet commodified in kink work.