everybody has a secret once a cheater, always a cheater?
Jun 20, 2024
The hosts tackle the thorny topic of infidelity, sharing a woman's emotional rollercoaster as she confronts betrayal. They discuss the intricate dance of rebuilding trust and the vital role of self-worth in such challenging moments. Lightening the mood, they also revisit a humorous grudge from a past trip, revealing unexpected grievances and showcasing their dynamic friendship. Amusing party anecdotes and dating advice add a lively layer to their conversation, making for an engaging exploration of love, trust, and the messiness of human connections.
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Tess's Cheating Experience
- Tess experienced her partner Sam cheating through DMs, a date, and a physical act within a year and a half.
- She details the betrayal and the emotional turmoil it caused, including loss of trust and trauma response.
Get Out After Betrayal
- Leave relationships where trust has been deeply broken by cheating.
- Do not settle for manipulative excuses or enabling friends who say "just stay."
False Control After Betrayal
- Staying in a relationship after betrayal can feel like false control as the cheater still holds power.
- Trauma responses might make victims convince themselves they are "in control" even when they're not.