

3728: Our Everloving Quest to Control Our Lives by Leo Babauta of Zen Habits on How to Sit with Uncertainty
6 snips Sep 6, 2025
Many chase control and comfort, but it often leads to anxiety. Embracing uncertainty can be a healthier alternative. Mindful acceptance allows us to find freedom amidst life's unpredictability. Instead of acting from fear, we can learn to respond with love. By acknowledging life's everchanging nature, we cultivate trust in the present moment and lessen the distress around the need for control.
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Life Is A Control Quest
- Most of life is spent chasing control, security, and comfort that never fully arrive.
- Recognizing this chase reveals how much of our behavior aims to avoid uncertainty.
Change Is The Default
- The basic nature of life is ever-changing and uncontrollable.
- Moments of perceived stability are always vulnerable to change.
Inspect Actions For Control Motives
- Examine your actions through the lens of control to see what's coping and what's helpful.
- Use that awareness to free yourself from unnecessary attempts to force certainty.