Theology in the Raw White Boy, Black Girl: A Raw Conversation about Race and Relationships with Adaeze and Chad Brinkman
Nov 14, 2024
Chad and Adaeze Brinkman, a mixed-race couple and co-authors of "White Boy, Black Girl," share their journey of love and faith. They discuss the complexities of navigating race in their relationship and the importance of open communication in interracial dynamics. Personal anecdotes highlight the challenges they've faced, emphasizing vulnerability and honesty. They also touch on reclaiming cultural identities through name pronunciation and engage in a lighthearted conversation about their favorite craft beverages, blending serious topics with fun insights.
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Past Relationship Challenges
- Adaeze recounts prior interracial dating experiences where family members displayed microaggressions.
- Her discomfort was dismissed, leading to conflict and a feeling of being othered.
Early Racial Discomfort
- In a Colorado brewery, Adaeze noticed people staring at the interracial couple.
- Chad, oblivious at first, dismissed her discomfort, causing a small conflict.
Validate Your Partner
- Acknowledge and validate your partner's experiences, especially regarding race.
- Avoid dismissing their feelings or minimizing their emotional battles.
