Understanding Covenant Love in Marriage

Covenant love in marriage is different from a contract-based approach. Rather than a 'if you meet my needs, then we're good' mentality, covenant love is about a mutual, sacrificial and lifelong commitment. This kind of love is demonstrated by God's faithfulness to us and His promise to never leave or forsake us. Applying covenant love to sexuality within marriage means viewing it as an opportunity to grow in deep intimacy, sacrificial giving, and passionate celebration. Following rigid rules and focusing solely on performance can hinder emotional connection and spontaneity, leading to conflict and insecurity. Instead, couples should communicate, navigate, and explore each other's wants and desires, while also seeking help for any difficulties or concerns.