
Focus on Marriage Podcast
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
Latest episodes

Jun 12, 2025 • 14min
Seeing Life Through Your Spouse’s Temperament
Anyone who's been married for a while will tell you that you and your spouse will have different perspectives sometimes. Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly explain how you need to learn to see things through your spouse's eyes. Also, the Smalley's provide some hope if your temperament was negatively impacted by a critical-eyed parent growing up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Contact Our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 10, 2025 • 12min
The Influence of Your Spouse’s Birth Order
The old adage "opposites attract," is very common for a lot of couples. Jim Daly and Dr. Kevin Leman explain how marrying someone who's of a different birth order from you can be a good thing. Plus, Greg and Erin Smalley open up to John Fuller about how they've seen birth order influence their marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Recognize Your Spouse’s Value Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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Jun 5, 2025 • 14min
Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Deserve Grace
The discussion delves into the power of grace in long-term relationships, emphasizing empathy and nonverbal communication. It advocates for humility and understanding, urging partners to look beyond each other's flaws. The speakers highlight integrity and open communication as vital to handling challenges. They also share insights on navigating marriage through changes, introducing helpful resources like 'Marriage in Transition' and a free marriage assessment for couples seeking support.

Jun 3, 2025 • 11min
Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters
When was the last time you and your spouse discussed where you want to be in 3 - 5 years? Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples are struggling with a sense of vision today. Also, Jim Daly speaks to Sean and Lanette Reed about how they've learned to set goals in their marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Marriage in Transition for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Creating a Shared Vision for Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Lifetime Love: Advice from Couples Who Made Marriage Last Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

May 29, 2025 • 12min
Recovering Vision After Trauma
If you've gone through something traumatic, it can take months or even years to regain your sense of direction. Erin Smalley talks with John and Greg about how it's common for couples to feel disoriented after trauma. Then, Jim Daly speaks with Josh and Katie Walters about how they went through a recovery process in their marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the New Marriage, Same Couple for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair Contact Our Counseling Team Healing from Infidelity: How to Rekindle Intimacy and Connection in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

May 27, 2025 • 14min
When Another Couple Steps In
If your marriage is in trouble, one of the best solutions is getting help from a couple who will support you. Josh and Katie Walters speak with Jim Daly about how another couple helped them through a dark time. Also, John and the Smalley's share where you can look to find support. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the New Marriage, Same Couple for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair Contact Our Counseling Team Marriage Champions Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

May 22, 2025 • 11min
Take the Plank Out of Your Eye First
How do you look beyond the ways your spouse has hurt you? Ashley Willis and her husband Dave open up to Jim Daly about how they had to work through feelings of betrayal, when Dave admitted he had a pornography problem. Then, Erin Smalley speaks about how to let go of shame even if you've blown it in your marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the 7 Days to a Naked Marriage Bundle for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored How to Experience Great Intimacy and Love in Your Marriage Contact Our Counseling Team No Porn Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

May 20, 2025 • 11min
When Porn Addiction is Discovered
Discovering a partner's porn addiction can shake the foundation of a marriage. The journey involves deep emotional turmoil, communication, and setting boundaries. Relapses are common, but with empathy, accountability, and a supportive environment, recovery is possible. Seeking outside help and counseling resources can strengthen the relationship and aid in healing. Personal accountability and faith play essential roles in navigating these challenging waters, ensuring couples can emerge stronger together.

May 15, 2025 • 11min
The Influence of Your Birth Order
Your birth order might influence your marriage more than you think. John, Greg and Erin share where each of them are in their respective birth orders. Plus, Jim Daly sits down with Dr. Kevin Leman to explain why birth order can help you understand your mate. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Recognize Your Spouse’s Value Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

May 13, 2025 • 12min
When You Have Nothing Left to Give
Is there hope for your marriage when you feel depleted? Brad and Marilyn Rhoads open up with Jim Daly about how they learned to be hopeful again. Then, John and the Smalley's share about where you can go if you're struggling in your relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Grace Marriage for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Allowing Grace to Transform Your Marriage Contact our Counseling Department Giving Your Spouse Grace Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.