
Focus on Marriage Podcast
If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.
Latest episodes

Jul 3, 2025 • 12min
Sticking it Out in Your Marriage
In the moments you feel frustrated, how do you look past the annoyances in your marriage? Sean and Lanette Reed speak to Jim Daly about how they've learned to ask for help as a couple. Then, John and the Smalley's bring up how to work through tough times together. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Marriage in Transition: Creating Connection Through Uncontrollable Change for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Creating a Shared Vision for Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jul 1, 2025 • 10min
When You Need Grit in Your Marriage
Every marriage needs a bit of toughness to help weather the difficult times. Jim Daly talks to Sean and Lanette Reed about why your marriage needs grit. Plus, John asks Greg how he and Erin have benefitted from developing resilience as a couple. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Marriage in Transition: Creating Connection Through Uncontrollable Change for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Creating a Shared Vision for Your Marriage Counseling Consultation and Referrals Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 26, 2025 • 12min
God Can Turn It Around So Quickly
No matter how hopeless things might feel in your marriage, God can still restore you. Jim Daly speaks to Josh and Katie Walters about how a trip to the Grand Canyon brought hope to their marriage. Also, John and Erin will encourage you that a tough situation doesn't have to be the end of your relationship. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book New Marriage, Same Couple for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair Counseling Consultation and Referrals Healing from Infidelity: How to Rekindle Intimacy and Connection in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 24, 2025 • 12min
Regaining Purpose After a Traumatic Event
How does a marriage recover from trauma? If you or a couple you're close to is experiencing a major challenge, you'll be encouraged by John, Greg and Erin's insights. Plus, Josh and Katie Walters bring up how they regained a sense of vision after Katie had an affair. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book New Marriage, Same Couple for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Restoring Your Marriage After an Affair Counseling Consultation and Referrals Healing from Infidelity: How to Rekindle Intimacy and Connection in Your Marriage Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 19, 2025 • 10min
The High Calling of a Husband
The Bible tells men to love your wives as Christ loved His church. Greg talks with John about some of the sacrifices he's learned to make as a husband. Also, Jim Daly and Ryan Frederick explain why being a good husband means choosing sacrificial love continually. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book How a Husband Speaks for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Loving Your Wife with Your Words How a Wife Speaks Encouraging Your Spouse Through Positive Communication Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 17, 2025 • 12min
The Way You Communicate Matters
For husbands, the ways you communicate to your wife is very different than how you talk to other men. Jim Daly and Ryan Frederick open up about how they've struggled at times in communicating with their wives. Also, Erin Smalley brings up things wives need to say to their husbands. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book How a Husband Speaks for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How a Wife Speaks Encouraging Your Spouse Through Positive Communication Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 12, 2025 • 14min
Seeing Life Through Your Spouse’s Temperament
Anyone who's been married for a while will tell you that you and your spouse will have different perspectives sometimes. Dr. Kevin Leman and Jim Daly explain how you need to learn to see things through your spouse's eyes. Also, the Smalley's provide some hope if your temperament was negatively impacted by a critical-eyed parent growing up. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Contact Our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Jun 10, 2025 • 12min
The Influence of Your Spouse’s Birth Order
The old adage "opposites attract," is very common for a lot of couples. Jim Daly and Dr. Kevin Leman explain how marrying someone who's of a different birth order from you can be a good thing. Plus, Greg and Erin Smalley open up to John Fuller about how they've seen birth order influence their marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book The Birth Order Book for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment How Your Birth Order Shapes Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Recognize Your Spouse’s Value Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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Jun 5, 2025 • 14min
Even If Your Spouse Doesn’t Deserve Grace
The discussion delves into the power of grace in long-term relationships, emphasizing empathy and nonverbal communication. It advocates for humility and understanding, urging partners to look beyond each other's flaws. The speakers highlight integrity and open communication as vital to handling challenges. They also share insights on navigating marriage through changes, introducing helpful resources like 'Marriage in Transition' and a free marriage assessment for couples seeking support.

Jun 3, 2025 • 11min
Why a 3 – 5 Year Plan Matters
When was the last time you and your spouse discussed where you want to be in 3 - 5 years? Erin Smalley addresses how a lot of couples are struggling with a sense of vision today. Also, Jim Daly speaks to Sean and Lanette Reed about how they've learned to set goals in their marriage. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Marriage in Transition for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Creating a Shared Vision for Your Marriage Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Lifetime Love: Advice from Couples Who Made Marriage Last Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.