Understanding Intimate Deception

Intimate deception refers to the act of withholding significant information from a partner in a committed relationship, particularly information that the partner would want to know. It is characterized by actions that violate the assumed agreements of the relationship, like financial dishonesty, infidelity, or hiding personal behaviors. This type of deception can create a significant rift in trust and emotional safety, often arising from the desire to maintain both personal freedom and partnership. Individuals engage in such deception because they want to pursue their own desires while simultaneously securing their partner's approval and love.