Earn Your Happy

The Fastest Way to Get Out of Victim Mode + Design The Life and Business You Want

Sep 25, 2025
Explore the uncomfortable truth about victim mode and how it holds you back. Discover the empowering shift to facilitator mode, where you curate meaningful experiences instead of waiting for them. Learn the benefits of creating mastermind groups and hosting your own events to open new opportunities. Embrace discomfort and recognize when you're letting life pass you by. With practical tools and strategies, transform your mindset for continual growth and connection. It's time to take charge and design the life you truly want!
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INSIGHT

Victim Mode Is Learned, Not Fixed

  • Victim mode is a learned pattern that makes you believe life happens to you instead of for you.
  • Shifting to facilitator mode lets you become a creator of experiences and accelerates change.
ADVICE

Curate The Conversations You Want

  • Bring better questions to conversations to shift the energy and depth of the room.
  • If you want a different friend group or mastermind, curate or host one yourself rather than waiting to be invited.
ANECDOTE

She Started Without Credentials

  • Lori describes starting rooms and groups before she had a big following or credentials.
  • She created opportunities herself while in debt and without industry accolades.
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