

498 - Is it possible to limit the expansion of our feelings for others? Listener Q&A
10 snips Sep 24, 2024
In a lively Q&A, the hosts tackle whether first relationships should be non-monogamous and how to handle a partner's new relationship energy. They discuss the complexities of expanding feelings for others and share humorous anecdotes about wombats to lighten the mood. Listeners gain insights on managing romantic emotions and setting boundaries in non-monogamous contexts. The conversation emphasizes the importance of open communication and self-education for navigating modern relationship dynamics.
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Missed Opportunities
- Emily reflects on her first monogamous relationship and a missed polyamorous opportunity.
- Early exposure to polyamory could develop relationship skills faster.
Monogamy Not a Prerequisite
- Monogamy isn't inherently better preparation for relationships than polyamory.
- Concerns about inexperience apply to both relationship styles.
Handling a Partner's NRE
- Prepare for a partner's NRE by focusing on self-regulation and internal joy.
- Communicate specific needs to your partner and work as a team.