The Jordan Harbinger Show 573: David Buss | When Men Behave Badly
Oct 14, 2021
David Buss, a leading expert in evolutionary psychology and author of "When Men Behave Badly," dives into the intriguing dynamics of human relationships. He discusses how male and female reproductive interests often conflict, particularly influenced by alcohol’s impact on women’s bonding. Buss explores the Dark Triad traits that drive men’s cheating and highlights how women signal openness to short-term relationships. He unpacks the complex motivations behind infidelity, emphasizing the need for understanding gender differences in sexual psychology.
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Sexual Selection as an Arms Race
- Sexual selection and evolution work as a co-evolutionary arms race between the sexes.
- Each sex evolves adaptations to manipulate the other, leading to counter-adaptations and defenses.
Deception in Dating
- Men often exaggerate their height or status on dating profiles, similar to the spider's deceptive tactics.
- Women also engage in deception, often understating their weight or using flattering photos.
Alcohol's Impact on Women
- Alcohol affects women differently, releasing bonding chemicals and increasing vulnerability.
- This can create a false sense of connection during sexual encounters and weaken defenses.
