Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Rethinking Schoolies: Experiences Your Teen Will Actually Remember
Schoolies can feel like a runaway train of risk, pressure, and “everyone else is doing it.” But your teen does have options—ones that are safer, more meaningful, and genuinely unforgettable.
In this episode, Justin and Kylie share powerful ways to reframe the end-of-Year-12 celebration, build intention, and offer your teen experiences they’ll remember for all the right reasons. From once-in-a-lifetime trips to simple, joy-filled adventures closer to home, you’ll get practical, confidence-boosting ideas you can start planning at any age.
KEY POINTS
- Why schoolies culture isn’t a rite of passage your teen needs.
- How intention and values help guide safer, healthier choices.
- Clever alternatives that still feel exciting, independent, and celebratory.
- Trips with parents, extended family, or friend groups that build connection — not chaos.
- Affordable options, big-dream options, and ways to start planning years ahead.
- How to talk to kids about celebrations while honouring freedom and safety.
QUOTE OF THE EPISODE
“High school is done — that is worth celebrating. But celebration doesn’t have to mean chaos. It can be meaningful, memorable, and still full of freedom.”
RESOURCES MENTIONED
- 5 Essential Conversations to Have With Your Teen Before Schoolies [Article]
- Get Set for Schoolies withPaul Dillon [Podcast Episode]
- Community & church-run schoolies alternatives
- Family traditions like “Sweet Sixteen Trips”
ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS
- Start the conversation early — schoolies ideas form long before Year 12.
- Ask your teen what they want from an end-of-school celebration (freedom? adventure? connection?).
- Brainstorm alternatives that align with your family values and your teen’s personality.
- If planning a bigger trip, start saving as a team — years ahead if possible.
- Explore friend-group or community-group options to add excitement, safety, and shared memories.
- Remind your teen that opting out of schoolies isn’t missing out — it can be levelling up.
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