Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 504 - Decolonizing Love with Millie and Nick
Nov 5, 2024
Millie Boella, a polyamorous relationship expert from Toronto, co-founded Decolonizing Love to advocate for intersectional love. Joined by her partner Nick, they discuss how colonialism shapes modern relationships and the importance of embracing diverse identities in polyamory. They challenge traditional norms, explore the complexities of relationship hierarchies, and emphasize the need for transparency and authenticity. Their insights highlight the significance of representation and accessibility in non-monogamous communities.
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Millie's Non-Monogamy Origin
- Millie realized she was non-monogamous while living on Maasai land.
- She observed more honesty and stability in Maasai polyamorous families compared to colonized monogamous families.
Nick's Polyamory Journey
- Nick learned about polyamory from Millie early in their relationship.
- He initially embraced it idealistically but developed rules due to inexperience, later becoming a non-hierarchy advocate.
Representation Matters
- Monogamous relationship models are abundant in media.
- Non-monogamous representation is increasing but needs more positive and diverse portrayals for better understanding.