Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 977

Jul 22, 2025
Arielle Domb, a London-based journalist known for her daring explorations of sexuality, shares her fascinating trip to a sex toy brothel in Berlin. She dives into the intertwining worlds of technology and intimacy, discussing the impact of AI on sexual experiences. The conversation also tackles consent, featuring callers with complex dilemmas about relationships and non-consent fantasies. Domb's insights into these future-forward topics prompt listeners to reevaluate their own perspectives on modern intimacy and communication.
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ADVICE

Avoid Drugging in CNC Play

  • Do not physically drug your partner as part of consensual non-consent (CNC) because consent cannot be given or withdrawn once unconscious.
  • Instead, explore similar fantasies through role play or by simulating unconsciousness while keeping all parties awake and consenting.
ADVICE

Respect Ambiguous Rejections

  • Accept that sometimes people give non-committal or 'dirty yes' responses when rejecting, especially women fearing negative reactions.
  • Be empathetic, let go of unclear rejections, and focus on direct no's as signs of safe communication.
ADVICE

Set Boundaries at Sex Clubs

  • When attending a sex club to be exhibitionists, clearly communicate your intention not to be touched or join others sexually.
  • Use words and gestures kindly but firmly to set boundaries and enjoy being watched without unwanted advances.
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