Raising Good Humans

S3 Ep 20: The Price Women Pay to Be Good with Elise Loehnen

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May 19, 2023
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ADVICE

Interrupt The Perfection Reflex

  • Notice when you perform perfection and question whether it serves you or perpetuates a cultural script.
  • Use reflection to choose different behaviors instead of reflexive goodness performance.
ADVICE

Resist Fixing; Choose Partnership

  • Put down the urge to fix and control and resist performing perfect caregiving.
  • Practice detaching from cultural programming to make room for partnership and balance at home.
INSIGHT

Goodness Performance Blocks Change

  • The psychology of performing goodness is a major brake on systemic change.
  • Women expend huge energy performing perfection, which prevents parity at home and social progress.
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