Queer Collective Podcast How to Open Your Relationship (and Actually Make It Work) ft. The Polyamory Therapy Collective
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Mar 13, 2025 Join therapists Louis K., Patrick Plessa, and Amanda Vandenbroek from the Polyamory Therapy Collective as they explore the ins and outs of opening up relationships. They dive into how to initiate the conversation and navigate jealousy, discussing rookie mistakes to avoid. Key topics include couples' privilege, the ethics of consensual non-monogamy, and the importance of communication. They provide valuable insights into embracing self-discovery and fostering authentic connections, making this a must-listen for anyone curious about ethical non-monogamy.
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Open Relationships Defined Broadly
- Open relationships mean consensual non-monogamy defined by the partners themselves.
- Feelings always occur; sex without any feelings is rare or intensity varies, not absence.
Use Flexible Guidelines, Not Rules
- Avoid rigid rules; instead, negotiate flexible guidelines and communicate continually.
- Plan regular renegotiation to address changes and prevent misunderstandings or rule-breaking.
Polyamory Centers Ethics and Autonomy
- Polyamory is a system of ethics emphasizing personal and sexual autonomy plus radical honesty.
- Non-monogamy is broader and varies, often lacking shared ethical frameworks unlike polyamory.
