

The 3 BIGGEST Relationship Mistakes You’re Making (& How to Fix Them!)
14 snips Jul 26, 2024
In this engaging discussion, relationship experts Esther Perel and Gary John Bishop lend their insights on love and connection. Perel reveals the intricate dynamics of desire in long-term relationships, emphasizing shared values. Bishop focuses on maintaining individuality and taking personal responsibility for relationship fulfillment. They also unpack common relationship pitfalls, the art of effective communication, and the importance of emotional safety. Tune in for transformative advice on nurturing lasting partnerships.
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Relationship Complexity
- Modern relationships are more complex than those of the past due to societal shifts.
- Traditional roles and expectations have been replaced by constant negotiation and an 'identity quest'.
The Rise of the 'Identity Economy'
- We expect relationships to fulfill us in ways communities and religion once did.
- This has led to an 'identity economy' in both love and work, increasing pressure on relationships.
Building Relationship Success
- Calibrate and diversify expectations in relationships instead of seeking one person to fulfill all needs.
- Engage in novel activities with your partner to foster intensity and excitement.