The Daily Dad

They’re Only Going To Ask You So Many Times

Mar 11, 2021

02:27

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The podcast discusses the importance of seizing the moment with your kids and being present when they ask for your attention. It also explores parallels between parenting and leadership qualities of Marcus Aurelius, as well as mentions the book 'The Boy Who Would Be King'.

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Recognize the limited chances to engage with kids and prioritize their requests for connection.

Model positive behavior inspired by Marcus Aurelius to cultivate moral strength in parenting.

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Importance of seizing the moment with your kids

It's crucial to recognize the limited opportunities we have to engage with our children and not defer or dismiss their requests for interaction. Children's repeated requests indicate the significance they attach to our presence and involvement in their lives. By being attentive, present, and fun during these moments, we convey to our children that they are valued and that we are reliable and supportive figures in their lives. Seizing these opportunities to connect helps establish strong bonds and positive relationships with our kids.

Seizing the Moment with Your Kids and Leading with Marcus Aurelius

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“They’re only going to ask you so many times: to get in the pool with them, to sit next to them, to help with their homework, to talk about the problem they’re having. No, not because you only get a certain number of summers and car rides and moments with your kids, like we’ve talked about. They’re only going to ask you so many times, because at some point they’re going to get the message.”

Ryan talks about why the urgency of the present should encourage you to be better to your kids, on today’s Daily Dad podcast.

The Boy Who Would Be King is out now, written by Ryan Holiday in the depths of the pandemic (not unlike the one Marcus ruled through), this new beautifully crafted book is available now. Go to dailystoic.com/king to order now and you’ll automatically get the free audiobook.

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