Science-Backed Secrets For Making Friends: Become Super Likable, Find Your BEST Friend, & Deepen Relationships with Dr. Marisa G. Franco

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Sep 7, 2022

Dr. Marisa G. Franco, a professor, psychologist, and author, shares science-backed secrets for making friends in this lively podcast. She discusses the challenges of making friends as adults and offers tricks to make people like you more. They explore the best places to make new friends and how to make friends outside of your own race, age, or socioeconomic background. Dr. Franco also provides advice on deepening friendships, turning acquaintances into close friends, and making a best friend. They touch on the difficulties men face in making close friends and offer low-hanging fruit for maintaining existing friendships with minimal effort.

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Introduction

00:00 • 4min

The Challenges of Making Friends as Adults

03:54 • 10min

The Power of Assuming People Like You

14:06 • 8min

Expanding Friendships Through Shared Interests

22:23 • 4min

Using Apps and Social Media to Make Friends

26:11 • 16min

Using Conversation Starter Cards and Observing Cathexis

41:44 • 7min

Taking Friendship From Group to Personal

48:51 • 18min

Turmeric benefits, overcoming intimidation, and the importance of self-verification

01:07:19 • 5min

Forming Connections with Cool and Successful People

01:12:18 • 15min

Discovering Unique Health Supplements and Personal Favorites

01:26:51 • 3min

I am so excited to welcome Dr. Marisa G. Franco as today’s guest. Marisa is a professor, psychologist, and author of a new book, Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make—and Keep—Friends, which just came out this week. She’s been featured in media outlets like Good Morning America, The Today Show, The New York Times, and NPR and has spent her career studying the science and research behind friendship. On this episode we talk about:

why it’s so hard to make friends as an adult
the best trick for turning work friends into real friends
simple tricks to make people like you more
the best places to make new friends
how to make friends outside of your own race, age, or socioeconomic background
the single rule that will change how you approach making friends
the best friend dates
exactly how to have the conversations that deepen friendships (without feeling like you’re making all the effort)
how to turn acquaintances into close friends
how to make a BEST friend
what to do if you feel like you keep getting rejected by potential friends
the biggest green flags and red flags to look for when choosing new friends
what to do when your friends have babies, get married, or otherwise enter different life phases
low-hanging fruit for maintaining existing friendships with as little effort as possible
how to makes friends with people who uplevel your life
why it tends to be harder for men to make close friends (and how to help them!)
how to make friends when you don’t vibe with any of the people who live by you

We would LOVE to hear from you any thoughts, reactions, or takeaways you have as you’re listening, so definitely screenshot and tag me @lizmoody and Marisa @drmarisagfranco on Instagram.

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