The Psychology Podcast Reimagining Boyhood & Masculinity w/ Ruth Whippman
Aug 22, 2024
Ruth Whippman, an insightful author and cultural critic, dives into the complexities of raising boys in today's world. The conversation emphasizes redefining masculinity to embrace emotional expression, challenging harmful norms that promote aggression. Whippman highlights the loneliness many boys face in a digital age and the importance of nurturing empathy and emotional intelligence. She advocates for healthier narratives around masculinity, supporting the idea that sensitivity is not a weakness, ultimately pushing for better mental health and bonds among young men.
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Boy Mom: A Nuanced Look at Raising Boys
- Ruth Whippman's book, "Boy Mom," explores the complexities of raising boys in the age of MeToo.
- It examines societal pressures on boys and the need for a more nuanced understanding of masculinity.
Harmful Messages and Impossible Masculinity
- Societal messages often encourage boys to suppress emotions and view femininity as negative.
- This can lead to psychological harm and difficulty forming intimate connections.
The Nuances of "Toxic Masculinity"
- The term "toxic masculinity" was useful during the MeToo movement to highlight harmful male behavior.
- However, it can be harmful for boys, as it might frame them as inherently bad.