Sex Upgraded How I Had My First Tantric Orgasm - (Extended Non-Ejaculatory Orgasm)
IN THIS EPISODE…
- The story of my first “Tantric Orgasm” (extended non-ejaculatory orgasm)
- Tools and techniques to help you have these experiences
- How non-ejaculatory orgasms can be psychedelic
- The importance of emotional vulnerability in unlocking men’s abilities to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms
- How ejaculatory orgasms can actually be less pleasurable than a full-body, extended non-ejaculatory orgasm
WHAT IS A TANTRIC ORGASM?
There is no universally agreed-upon meaning for this term, but in the context of this story, I’m referring to a certain kind of orgasm where orgasmic pleasure is felt throughout the entire body (not just localized in the penis and genitals), and this orgasm can be experienced for many minutes at a time - without any ejaculation of semen or refractory period. Tantric Orgasms are non-ejaculatory orgasms, but non-ejaculatory orgasms are not necessarily “Tantric.”
What’s the difference then? “Tantric” in this context refers to what is happening in your internal state, feelings of connection (with self, lover and all), and awareness (of self, lover and all) while you are experiencing this orgasm. In contrast to just experiencing non-ejaculatory orgasmic pleasure in your entire body, a “Tantric” orgasm occurs when the extended non-ejaculatory orgasm is accompanied with experiences of altered/heightened states of consciousness where you might feel more expansive and connected to things than you normally would.
It can actually feel psychedelic, and in this episode I talk about how this experience actually did become psychedelic for me (and for context, my partner and I were totally sober). I went to the bathroom to pee after making love for a long time and experiencing an extended non-ejaculatory orgasm, and when I got into the bathroom, the walls moved and sparked as if I was on psychedelics!
HOW TO HAVE A TANTRIC ORGASM
In this episode I’ll share some surprising tips and insights that will help you get there. Think about this for contrast: the ejaculatory orgasms we’re familiar with are relatively simple to force, but extended, full body non-ejaculatory orgasms can’t be forced. You can’t “stroke harder” to get there. It’s an allowing process… It’s an unfolding process… like ocean waves of orgasmic pleasure rolling and crashing through your body, over and over and over again.
NON-EJACULATORY ORGASM TRAINING
If you want to experience this kind of sex - having sex for hours and getting into the incredible realms of non-ejaculatory orgasmic bliss, check out my Orgasmic Mastery Course. It’s an in-depth training that will guide you through a clearly outlined, step-by-step journey to help you experience this kind of sexual magic and upgrade your intimate life forever.
If you’d like to start with simply overcoming premature ejaculation, check out my free ejaculation control guide. It’ll start you off in a good direction. One of the next podcast episodes will help you in this department too - it’ll be about 13 common causes of premature ejaculation. Stay tuned!
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