Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2831: Have I Committed to Too Many Kids' Activities? By Andy Hill of Marriage Kids and Money on Balancing Family Schedules
Dec 13, 2025
A family navigates the hectic world of kids' activities, learning from early missteps like toddler soccer meltdowns. They embrace Nicole's principle of moderation to avoid overwhelming schedules and financial strain. Sticking to one activity at a time fosters family unity and ensures age-appropriate choices. The conversation highlights the balance between academics and sports, alongside the ongoing journey of parental learning. Key insights prompt listeners to be intentional about their kids' activities and consider alternatives.
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Early Signups Backfired
- Andy Hill signed his baby up for swimming lessons and kept him in until age two but he still didn't learn to swim by four.
- He also enrolled Zoe and Calvin in soccer too early, leading to crying and being overwhelmed on the field.
Limit To One Activity At A Time
- Do limit children to one structured activity at a time to avoid overwhelm and schedule strain.
- This keeps family time balanced and prevents one parent from shouldering all transportation and logistics.
Choose Age-Appropriate Activities
- Avoid age-inappropriate classes even if they exist; readiness matters more than the offering.
- Be skeptical of early youth-sports marketing because it can sell unnecessary programs and cost a lot.