Sex With Emily

Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

May 31, 2024

Gabrielle Blair, the mind behind Ejaculate Responsibly, discusses society's burden of pregnancy prevention on vulva owners, advocating for women's autonomy and pleasure. The episode explores the need for more sex ed to reduce unwanted pregnancies and how to discuss responsible ejaculating with young men. A thought-provoking conversation challenging societal norms around reproductive responsibility.

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Gabrielle Blair

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Society unfairly burdens vulva owners with pregnancy prevention, questioning the fairness and prioritization of sexual pleasure.

Advocating for a shift in societal views on pregnancy prevention to involve penis owners in contraception and pleasure conversations.

Comprehensive sex education is crucial in reducing unwanted pregnancies, emphasizing the need for responsible ejaculation and shared contraceptive responsibility.

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Pregnancy Prevention and Burdens

Women carry the burden of pregnancy prevention and deal with all aspects of pregnancy, regardless of their decision. Society's expectation places this responsibility on vulva owners, raising questions about fairness and sexual pleasure.

Introduction

2min

Exploring Pleasure, Sexuality, and Pregnancy

4min

Equitable Responsibility in Preventing Unwanted Pregnancies

15min

Navigating the Complexities of Condom Use and Sexual Pressure

6min

Revolutionizing Sex Education for Safer Sexual Practices

8min

Responsible Ejaculation and Vasectomy Education

20min

Embracing Pleasure and Positive Sexual Experiences

4min

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017.

On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation!

In this episode you’ll learn:

How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers
Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies
How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly

Show Notes:

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Sex With Emily

Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Episode guests

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

Deep dives

Pregnancy Prevention and Burdens

Shifting Pregnancy Prevention Norms

Importance of Comprehensive Sex Education

Men's Responsibility in Contraception

Empowering Women's Reproductive Choices

Remember Everything You Learn from Podcasts