The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Ep. 173: Are Connected Kids always Cooperative
Apr 9, 2024
Connected kids can behave unexpectedly, often choosing to be uncooperative. The podcast explores how a child’s uncooperativeness can reflect their temperament and desire for independence. It emphasizes the importance of creating a safe environment for self-expression and personal growth. Interestingly, too much cooperation may not be beneficial. By focusing on co-regulation and connection, parents can help their kids better understand themselves and navigate their emotions.
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Quick takeaways
- Regulated and connected children may exhibit uncooperative behavior as a means to explore their independence and identity.
- Parenting founded on co-regulation enhances children's emotional resilience, enabling them to navigate frustration and assert their preferences effectively.
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The Role of Regulation, Connection, and Safety
Regulation, connection, and felt safety are crucial components in understanding children's behavior. When children feel regulated and connected, they are more likely to behave well and navigate their emotions effectively. However, this understanding doesn't imply a checklist approach; it's about exploring the underlying needs driving behavior. Observing and seeking these needs fosters curiosity and compassion, rather than judgment, when children's behaviors seem baffling.
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