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It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

Q&A Lab - Answering Listener Questions

May 5, 2022
35:39

It’s time for the Q&A Lab again! In this episode, Bill and Megan answer listener questions on several topics, including:

  • dealing with high conflict family members who accuse you of not living up to their expectations. Should hurtful comments be ignored? Should EAR Statements be used?
  • similarities and differences of ADHD and personality disorders
  • can ADHD co-exist with a high conflict personality in the same individual
  • from a previous podcast on Russia’s Putin in which we suggested that he may suffer from malignant narcissism, and whether the term “psychopath” would be more accurate
  • deciding when to use EAR Statements and BIFF Responses to create connection with a person with a high conflict personality, and when to just take distance or avoid them
  • re-kindling an old friendship with someone with Borderline Personality HCP attributes

Listen as we break it down and answer these questions that truly have a significant impact on lives.

Links & Other Notes

BOOKS

It’s All Your Fault! 12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything

ARTICLES

The CARS Method® for Resolving High Conflict Situations

Don’t Let HCPs Ruin Your Life

You Can Strengthen Any Relationship With Empathy, Attention, and Respect

WEBSITE

Our website: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/

Submit a Question for Bill and Megan

All of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.

You can also find these show notes at our site as well.

Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.

  • (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
  • (02:57) - Q&A Lab
  • (03:09) - Question 1
  • (10:29) - Question 2
  • (17:08) - Question 3
  • (22:47) - Question 4
  • (26:09) - Question 5
  • (32:55) - Links, Etc.
  • (33:53) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Catherine Mattice

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