It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People Q&A Lab - Answering Listener Questions
It’s time for the Q&A Lab again! In this episode, Bill and Megan answer listener questions on several topics, including:
- dealing with high conflict family members who accuse you of not living up to their expectations. Should hurtful comments be ignored? Should EAR Statements be used?
- similarities and differences of ADHD and personality disorders
- can ADHD co-exist with a high conflict personality in the same individual
- from a previous podcast on Russia’s Putin in which we suggested that he may suffer from malignant narcissism, and whether the term “psychopath” would be more accurate
- deciding when to use EAR Statements and BIFF Responses to create connection with a person with a high conflict personality, and when to just take distance or avoid them
- re-kindling an old friendship with someone with Borderline Personality HCP attributes
Listen as we break it down and answer these questions that truly have a significant impact on lives.
Links & Other Notes
BOOKS
It’s All Your Fault! 12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything
ARTICLES
The CARS Method® for Resolving High Conflict Situations
You Can Strengthen Any Relationship With Empathy, Attention, and Respect
WEBSITE
Our website: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
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You can also find these show notes at our site as well.
Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
- (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
- (02:57) - Q&A Lab
- (03:09) - Question 1
- (10:29) - Question 2
- (17:08) - Question 3
- (22:47) - Question 4
- (26:09) - Question 5
- (32:55) - Links, Etc.
- (33:53) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Catherine Mattice
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