The Daily Dad Only Later Will You See This
May 18, 2023
Explore the complex relationship between parents and children, highlighting how fantasies can overshadow their individuality. Delve into Joan Didion’s poignant reflection on grief and the challenges of parenting. The discussion encourages self-reflection on the regrets we may hold as our children carve out their unique paths. It’s a thought-provoking dive into the illusions of control and the need to embrace our children’s authentic selves.
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Recognize Children's Independence
- Recognize children as independent individuals with their own paths.
- Avoid imposing personal fantasies or controlling their lives.
Raising Children as Dolls
- Parents often raise children as extensions of themselves, projecting their desires and aspirations.
- This realization often comes too late, leading to regret and strained relationships.
Parental Fantasies and Overprotection
- Dressing children to fit parental fantasies and shaping their careers reflects parental desires, not the child's.
- Overprotection prevents children from developing resilience and independence.
