The podcast discusses the four types of single people, including the perpetual dater who is resilient and knows what they want, and those who are uncertain but open to relationships. The importance of being intentional in dating and finding happiness within oneself is emphasized. Gratitude is expressed to listeners and sponsors are mentioned.
The first type of single person is the perpetual dater, who remains hopeful and optimistic about finding love but might miss out on the growth that comes from being alone if their sole focus is on finding a partner.
The second type of single person is characterized by being hurt in the past and now having walls up, potentially closing themselves off from being vulnerable again and not letting past hurt dictate their present hope for love.
Deep dives
The Perpetual Dater: Embracing Love and Connection
The first type of single person discussed in the podcast is the perpetual dater, who remains hopeful and optimistic about finding love. They actively go on dates, even after experiencing disappointments or bad dates, and believe strongly in love and connection. This type of person has a deep understanding of what they want in a partner, as they have experienced the opposite through various dating experiences. While they have a positive mindset, there's a potential downside where they might miss out on the power of being alone and the growth that comes from it if their sole focus is on finding a partner.
Closed Off and Cynical: The Hurting Heart
The second type of single person is characterized by being hurt in the past and now having walls up. They may be cynical and believe that finding love will only lead to more pain. As a form of self-protection, they may use humor or adopt an attitude of not needing anyone. While it is important to take a break and heal after heartbreak, this type of person might close themselves off from being vulnerable again. It is crucial to find a balance and not let past hurt dictate their present hope for love.
The Drifter: Uncertain and Passive
The third type of single person falls somewhere between the perpetual dater and the closed-off cynic. They may stumble into relationships without a clear purpose and lack a deep understanding of themselves. They are passive in their approach to dating and may not have a strong sense of what they want or who they are. This can result in unsatisfying relationships and a lack of intentionality. They float through dating, hoping that someone else will give them direction, and do not fully embrace the empowerment and growth that can come from being single.
In this episode, I talk about four different mindsets you can have during your single phase in life. I talk about what each means and how to make the most of this time (and in a relationship).
My NEW journal, "The BOLD Journal" is available now on Amazon!
Instagram: @case.kenny
Get the Snipd podcast app
Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
AI-powered podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Discover highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode
Save any moment
Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways
Share & Export
Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more
AI-powered podcast player
Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features
Discover highlights
Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode