
Elevate with Robert Glazer Weekend Conversations: Give Up Your Guilt
Nov 1, 2025
Dive into a fresh perspective on guilt as Robert Glazer and Mick Sloan unpack Dr. Becky Kennedy's insights. Discover how guilt often signals a clash with your core values rather than a failure to meet others' expectations. The hosts connect parenting lessons to leadership, emphasizing how to balance empathy and authority. Learn the importance of setting boundaries in both personal and professional realms to maintain authenticity. Plus, practical tips on saying no without the weight of guilt—it's all about aligning actions with priorities!
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Guilt Vs. Values Mismatch
- People often say “I feel guilty” when they actually regret acting against their values, not when they uphold them.
- Taking on others' emotions after you act according to your values creates false guilt and confusion.
Acknowledge Without Absorbing
- Honor others' feelings without making them yours by acknowledging disappointment but standing firm on your value-driven choice.
- Use calm validation like “I understand why you're upset” instead of absorbing their emotion.
Expect Negative Reactions, Stay Firm
- When delivering bad news (denials, firings, no promotion), expect anger or sadness and don't assume immediate acceptance.
- Stand firm, explain the values behind the decision, and resist second-guessing when met with predictable upset.
