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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): 3 Ways to Stop Obsessing Over Someone in Early Dating

Aug 14, 2023
12:28
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Learn how to avoid obsessive thinking and self-sabotage in early dating. Explore the importance of finding happiness outside of relationships. Discover how building confidence and setting expectations can lead to successful dating. Maintain a clear vision of what you want and the value you bring. Understand the power of standards in enhancing your attractiveness.
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Quick takeaways

  • Slowing down in early dating is crucial to avoid self-sabotage and pushing someone away.
  • Having a clear vision of the kind of long-term relationship we want helps us avoid investing too much too soon and align with our own needs and values.

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The Importance of Slowing Down in Love Life

Slowing down in our love life is crucial to avoid investing in people before they've shown they deserve it. We often rush forward, projecting onto them all the value they could have in our lives. However, this can lead to giving too much energy without receiving enough in return. Slowing down is difficult when we feel scarcity and a lack of options, but we can counter this by cultivating abundance in other areas of our lives.

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