The Dr. John Delony Show

Are Video Games Ruining My Relationships?

Nov 8, 2024
Discover how video games can affect personal relationships and the importance of striking a balance between gaming and family life. A husband grapples with trust issues after an affair, while another man seeks to overcome overthinking patterns. Explore the impact of childhood trauma on marriage, and the need for open communication to rebuild trust. The conversation also delves into the challenges of intimacy and vulnerability, emphasizing the value of shared experiences and counseling for stronger connections.
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ANECDOTE

Gaming and Life Skills

  • Tyler learned to play drums through Rock Band and applied market trends from logistics games to his purchasing career.
  • He seeks balance between gaming and family time with his girlfriend and her two young sons.
ADVICE

Seek External Perspective

  • John Delony advises Tyler to consider if his gaming habits are truly unique or if he's rationalizing them.
  • He suggests Tyler seek external perspectives to gain a clearer view.
ADVICE

Prioritize In-Person Connection

  • Delony encourages Tyler to prioritize in-person connection over self-expression through video games.
  • He suggests an identity shift is necessary when taking on new responsibilities, like being a partner and father.
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