Keep Talking Episode 139: Nick Pollard - The Problem With People-Pleasing
Nick Pollard, "The People Displeaser," is a speaker and life coach who advocates for honest, authentic living through mindful boundaries, free of people-pleasing.
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(00:00) Intro
(01:00) When Nick's was homicidal and suicidal
(04:09) Nick's father
(09:10) How Nick got his life together
(18:08) Why Nick focuses on people-pleasing
(23:25) Symptoms of a people-pleaser
(26:44) Why do people become people-pleasers?
(31:23) Your rules for life and a personal bill of rights
(37:23) Establishing personal boundaries
(42:39) Confronting fear and quotes from Jim Hollis
(49:16) People-pleasers often have few same-sex friends
(57:11) When should former people-pleasers leave relationships?
(01:09:15) Nick's relationship deal-breakers