Becoming a great coach: Practices & principles to help you make a bigger impact on your teams w/ Jill Wetzler #157
Nov 30, 2023
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Jill Wetzler, former VP of Engineering and Executive Coach, shares practices to become a great coach. She discusses creating a mindset of possibility, fostering positive relationships, cultivating trust, navigating threats, and thinking about the future. They touch on implementing a peer coaching structure and making the most of peer group discussions.
Asking open-ended questions and avoiding giving advice can have a positive impact on coaching sessions and professional interactions.
Shifting the perspective from comparison to personal growth and skills development can help individuals and managers navigate meaningful career growth.
Deep dives
Importance of Asking Good Questions
Asking good questions has been a powerful tool in unlocking inner peace and worth for Jill. It has helped her build better relationships, understand different perspectives, and navigate challenging situations. By asking open-ended questions and avoiding giving advice, Jill has seen the positive impact of this approach in her coaching sessions and professional interactions.
Creating Career Growth in Organizations with Limited Headcount
With the current trend of layoffs and limited headcount in many organizations, Jill highlights the need to rethink career growth beyond traditional titles and compensation. She emphasizes the importance of focusing on skill growth, aligning personal values with organizational goals, and finding fulfillment in one's work. By shifting the perspective from comparison to personal growth and skills development, individuals and managers can navigate career growth in a meaningful way.
Power of Peer Coaching Circles
Jill discusses the effectiveness of peer coaching circles for managers. These groups provide a space for managers to share challenges, exchange experiences, and offer support without giving direct advice. The structure involves asking open-ended questions, active listening, and providing insights from personal experiences. These circles encourage vulnerability, collaboration, and skill development, contributing to personal and professional growth within a supportive community.
Strength of the Team and Individual Members
Jill shares the quote, 'The strength of the team is each individual member, and the strength of each member is the team.' This quote resonates deeply with her as it highlights the importance of leveraging the unique strengths of each team member. By recognizing and valuing diverse strengths, teams can achieve better outcomes and support each other's growth. Jill applies this philosophy to build strong, balanced teams and foster a collaborative and supportive work environment.
In this episode, Jill Wetzler shares practices and principles to help you become a great coach! As an Executive Coach & former VP of Engineering, Jill shares how attending her first coaching workshop impacted her career trajectory and the frameworks she uses to help create a mindset of possibility, foster positive relationships, cultivate trust, navigate threats, and help people think about the future. She shares her own experiences working through these frameworks & how it helped guide her career decisions. Plus we discuss tools for implementing a peer coaching structure into your org & how to make the most of peer group discussions!
Jill Wetzler is a leadership coach, consultant, and former VP of Engineering with more than 15 years of experience leading engineering teams at some of Silicon Valley's fastest-growing companies. She works with organizations who want to strengthen and uplevel their management teams, and she coaches leaders at all levels to help them advance their skills and find fulfillment at work and in life. Jill has built and scaled engineering orgs at companies like Salesforce, Twitter, Lyft, and Pilot through periods of high growth. Find out more at www.jillwetzler.com
"Imagine yourself five years from now. You're completely happy, you're completely fulfilled in your job. What are you spending your day doing? So not what is your job? What's your job title? But literally, what is the day to day activity? You get up at nine o'clock, you walk into a meeting, what are you doing in that meeting? Once I had all of that in sort of like a three paragraph form, I actually started to write my ideal job description.”
- Jill Wetzler
SHOW NOTES:
The story of Jill’s first coaching workshop & its impact on her as an eng leader (3:29)
Questions & topics to focus on to be a better coach (6:27)
Asking questions related to vision that inspire a possibility mindset (8:49)
Frameworks for helping people shift into a creative brain space (10:26)
How to navigate the topic of fairness & what elements threaten it (14:33)
Identifying what you want your day-to-day to look like in the future (17:25)
Jill’s decision to create her own role @ Lyft working w/ L&D (20:42)
Her biggest takeaways & recommendations for managers (26:05)
Tips for breaking out of your pre-established identity (30:10)
Implementing a “team roadshow” practice in your org (32:06)
Jill’s approach for introducing a peer coaching structure into their team (34:30)
Talk from your own experience & avoid simply giving advice (36:39)
Rapid fire questions (40:45)
LINKS AND RESOURCES
Finding Me - Viola Davis’ story, in her own words, that spans her incredible, inspiring life, from her coming-of-age in Rhode Island to her present day.
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