

266: Navigating Intensity Through a Cultural Lens w/ Kaitlin Smith
Feb 6, 2024
Kaitlin Smith, a Boston-based scholar and founder of Our Wild Minds, supports gifted BIPOC adults and studies the history of mind sciences. In this engaging discussion, she shares her journey navigating intensity through the lens of cultural dynamics. Kaitlin reflects on the challenges of being a gifted Black individual in predominantly white environments, the pressure to conform, and her experiences with family expectations. She reveals how she harnesses intensity to create positive change and emphasizes the importance of authenticity and community in personal growth.
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Conflicting Racial Expectations
- Cultural expectations shaped how Kaitlin's intellect was read as either 'acting white' or 'not Black enough.'
- These conflicting messages created pressure to modify her self-expression across contexts.
Giftedness As Family Trophy
- Kaitlin describes family expectations that treated her giftedness as a trophy rather than a full identity.
- She realized in adulthood she need not carry others' emotional burdens and reclaimed her expression.
Giftedness As Cultural Difference
- Kaitlin notes giftedness can appear like a distinct culture with different thinking styles.
- Recognizing thinking-style differences helps explain family misunderstandings and reduces shame.